We may have to give up on someone we imagined a future with. Knowing when to give up and when to keep fighting for someone might be the most difficult part. As long as we get that right, we can trust in whatever follows. So how do we know when to give up on the person we once loved, or still love, and when we should try a little harder?
There might not be a clear-cut guidebook, but there are several signs we can pay attention to. As we said, a good partner will accept you for who you are. It could come down to bad chemistry. If being with somebody is holding you back from any part of your life, you have to think about what your priorities are, and what the best thing is for you overall.
Naturally, that involves being introduced to family and friends. Ultimately, a relationship should feel right in your gut. Romantic affection is part of all healthy romantic relationships. But in general, there should still be an underlying attraction there. It may be the case that while you may consciously like some things about this guy such as his looks for example your subconscious radar has picked up on something in this guy which it knows would be bad for you.
This may be eating away at you making you wonder if you should give up on him or not. Check out that article to see ways your subconscious mind works in evaluating if someone is soulmate material or not.
Staying with a guy for reasons like these is a recipe for disaster. Right now you need to evaluate if there are any personal issues that are making you want to be with this guy other than you genuinely liking him. The easy way to evaluate this is to ask yourself — Would I be happy to be single? If you do find you have issues, you should deal with these directly rather than depending on using a guy to cover over them.
Letting him go now could be the best thing in the long run rather than staying in a relationship with him that ultimately will go nowhere. On the contrary, if you now realize he may not like you yet or is simply scared to fall in love with you and this is the only reason why you are considering giving up on him, then hold your horses.
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Everyone has their moments, but if you find yourself consistently overlooking or making excuses for his boorishness, why are you staying? There's a fine line between "opposites attract" and someone whose basic life views don't mesh with yours. I'm not saying you have to be on the same page about everything, but if you're going to coexist and grow with someone over time, you probably want to at least be in the same section of the library.
Sometimes it hits you like a wrecking ball and sometimes it sneaks up on you, but you know yourself best. If you're keeping hold of someone because you feel like you've invested something in them, are afraid you won't find someone else, or are just hoping things will get better, take a look at the woman in the mirror and ask her some tough questions. Love isn't everything, and it is certainly possible to love a toxic person and still need to break away. The absence of love raises a red flag.
As a society, we're conditioned not to be quitters. Giving up is viewed as something the weak and undisciplined do. But if you find yourself in a relationship where the "give" part is conspicuously absent from give and take, then giving up just might be the best gift you give yourself.
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